Apologies for the long break. Could not help it though, as pappi pet ka sawal came in the way of blogging. However, it gave me some fodder for my blog.
During the Valentine’s week many things made it to the BREAKING NEWS – Delhi's Israeli Bomb Blast, Dhoni’s never ending love with thrilling climax to the ODIs, SC rejecting Army Chief VK Singh’s plea, Politicians celebrating every day as promise day in UP elections, Sahara making Indian cricket team besahara and a peaceful VALENTINE’S DAY celebrations for a change.
So what is that I am going to bore you with today? Well, since I am a prisoner of love what best then writing about Valentine’s Day.
Now let me begin with some history gyan about Valentine’s Day.
The origin of this day is from my favourite country – Italy.
Italy is one place that I am dying to see. Italian food, architecture and culture attract me like a magnet. Maybe my something is waiting there! Time I start planning my next holiday.
Anyways that’s a topic to be pondered over next time. Let me come back to the original point.
Valentine’s Day started in the time of the Roman Empire. In ancient Rome, February 14th was a holiday to honour Juno, the Queen of the Roman Gods and Goddesses. The Romans also knew her as the Goddess of women and marriage. The following day, February 15th, began the Feast of Lupercalia.
On the eve of the festival of Lupercalia the names of Roman girls were written on slips of paper and placed into jars. Each young man would draw a girl’s name from the jar and would then be partners for the duration of the festival with the girl whom he chose. Sometimes the pairing lasted an entire year, and often, they would fall in love and would later marry.
Under the rule of Emperor Claudius II Rome was involved in many bloody wars and to enroll more soldiers into army Claudius cancelled all marriages and engagements in Rome.
Saint Valentine was a priest at Rome that time. He and Saint Marius secretly married couples, and for this kind deed Saint Valentine suffered martyrdom on the 14th day of February, about the year 270. To show gratitude towards Saint Valentine the pastors of the early Christian Church in Rome endeavored to celebrate this day on the name of Saint Valentine’s Day.
So you see Valentine’s Day actually started with a SACRIFICE. Love was to be savored not lusted for.
Also, nowhere it was patented that only boys would make all efforts to please the girls. It was a mutual effort.
But today Valentine’s Day has turned into a Merchandise Day.
City gets painted in Red. Girls deck up in red from top to toe, holding red roses with red gifts. Heart is no more a part of your body but is suspended in Malls. So much is red mania that I hate seeing anybody draped in red.
These days’ materialistic pleasures have taken over the heart matters. The colored lenses never allow you to see through the depths of your heart in your eyes.
I have an inherent problem with all these so called days that celebrate LOVE, MOTHERS, WOMEN, FATHER, and CHILDREN among scores of other things.
I believe that love and relationships are to be celebrated every day.
So here's a toast to every day of Life. Make it count!!!!!!!!
. Everything comes with an expiry date. Albeit in some cases couples do
carry on beyond their expiry date but not because of love but because
of peripheral benefits that they get out of their relationship. They are
absolutely cool with the idea of DOUBLE INCOME AND NO SEX (read
http://www.timescrest.com/society/double-income-no-sex-6761). After all
sex has always been overrated in our society. And when every second
married man/women has a fling then who wants to stay in a marriage
because of Sex. Sex is not a taboo anymore. It has become commodity. The
same is reflected in every day life including our movies – Rockstar,
Sahib Biwi Aur Gangster and the list goes on.
